Ching Chong Balls : Surviving Weekdays

Decided to write this post as I'm really missing my pretty boy who had went for outfield on Tuesday. Its really quite tough when your boyfriend or even close friend, someone who you are really attached to leave for their national services.

We used to meet up everyday because we stay really near each other (just one MRT stop away) and do everything together, well most. We eat together, watch television together do work together, we are like conjoined twins. Even if we are not together we will keep texting each other to update our states. HAHAHA

first overseas trip together (I love looking back at old photos when I miss him)

graduation trip

But after he served the NS (his affair, cause he spend longer time with 'her') we spend lesser and lesser time together. yes, we get to spend the weekends together but its really short.

Let's count, book out on

Friday - had to do the laundry and is super duper shag no more energy to go out -half day gone

Saturday - yes full time together get to shop watch movie but have to go to the supermarket to buy snacks and stuff, sometime Emart - 1/4 day gone

Sunday - pack back as the laundry is dry now, polish boots this and that preparing for book in in the late afternoon plus travel time - half day gone

So over all we only get to spend 3/4 of a day together compare to 7 days a week in the past!!!!

The day he went Tekong didn't get to send him off but we skyped

But sooner or later you will get use to it. The irritating part is when they can't book out due to confinement or outfield or some other reasons. Thats the most unbearable part cause you waited patiently for 5 days and now you have to wait longer then can you see him/ her.

Things may get better for some of you when they get their posting after BMT, as for mine his posting is still as strict as his BMT life (or even worse). He still gets confinement and outfield but even 'better' he now has additional 'overseas trip'.

his precious one week break after BMT, short and sweet get away for us

Well, all I can say for the ones waiting outside is be really patient with them, sometimes its not that they don't want to reply you, its because they can't so just wait patiently.

Be grateful, their reply maybe really really short but don't be angry be really grateful cause this just shows how important you are to them that they are willing to risk their 'life' to reply you.

Be really gentle and nice to they when they book out cause they had enough suffering from their affair.

Lastly, just keep your phone close to you so that you reply them ASAP (as soon as possible) and self entertainment is very important. Just download some movies in your phone or iPad while waiting for them.

Below are some of my lovely memorises!